Friday, April 17, 2009

*whatever happens, happens for a reason*


This concept applies to relationships. There's a reason behind actions, whether they are obvious to you or known only to the person who performs that action. Sometimes you say that there's no good reason why people do things. Yes, it is true, but keep in mind that what doesn't make sense to you, makes perfect sense to others.

Also, it is sometimes difficult to verbally explain reasoning behind actions, even if the explanation is clear in the mind. Other people may find it difficult to explain their reasoning.

Bottom line is, whatever happens-happens for a reason

Or for my optimists out there:

Whatever happens- Happens for the better (that's the one I like)

So next time you're angry or sad, take time to think things through...Don't feel sorry for yourself, but really think about the line of events.

Remember: there's always somebody worse off then you are so appreciate what you have.

Note : Ummie believe that everything happens in Allah's time..not yours..even not ours

2 comments:

  1. Being in a long distance relationship isn’t easy. It requires very strong trust, commitment, guidelines, communication and bla bla bla. From what I heard is that majority of people in long distance relationships eventually break up. That’s why you see so many “experts” proclaim that long distance relationships are a bad idea and don’t work. Yet if you learn to master communication and set the parameters of your relationship, it can work. It’s an uphill battle, but it is possible…(uh is it really?) I have been in a long distance relationship since 3yrs now… and all i can say is that i have been through lots of ups…n even more downs. But i don’t regret a single moment, because everything is just wonderful *during good times*

    ReplyDelete
  2. selalu sangat berlaku apa yang kita tak nak memang itulah yang kita dapat..tawakkal je lah

    ReplyDelete