*whatever happens, happens for a reason*

This concept applies to relationships. There's a reason behind actions, whether they are obvious to you or known only to the person who performs that action. Sometimes you say that there's no good reason why people do things. Yes, it is true, but keep in mind that what doesn't make sense to you, makes perfect sense to others.

Also, it is sometimes difficult to verbally explain reasoning behind actions, even if the explanation is clear in the mind. Other people may find it difficult to explain their reasoning.

Bottom line is, whatever happens-happens for a reason

Or for my optimists out there:

Whatever happens- Happens for the better (that's the one I like)

So next time you're angry or sad, take time to think things through...Don't feel sorry for yourself, but really think about the line of events.

Remember: there's always somebody worse off then you are so appreciate what you have.

Note : Ummie believe that everything happens in Allah's time..not yours..even not ours

Right Here Waiting

Oceans apart day after day

And I slowly go insane

I hear your voice on the line

But it doesnt stop the pain

If I see you next to never

How can we say forever

Wherever you go

Whatever you do

I will be right here waiting for you

Whatever it takes

Or how my heart breaks

I will be right here waiting for you

I took for granted, all the times

That I thought would last somehow

I hear the laughter, I taste the tears

But I cant get near you now

Oh, cant you see it baby

You've got me going crazy

I wonder how we can survive

This romance

But in the end if Im with you

Ill take the chance

Oh, cant you see it baby
You've got me going crazy

How to be the women men adore?...

When it comes to your relationships with men, which of the following do you find yourself saying?

a. "Why didn't he call?"
b. "How can I find the right man?
c. "Why do I always date losers?
d. "Why doesn't he love me anymore?
e. "What am I doing wrong?
f. "Why do some women have great relationships with men -- and mine are always dull, unfulfilling and boring?
g. "If only I could understand men...."

If you checked one or more of the above?...whatever you are..The important thing to remember is that you're not alone. Most women -- whether single or married -- have asked themselves these kinds of questions. I've found that the reason women have these concerns is because they simply don't understand men.

Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every desire?

Yes, it's true! You can have a healthy, loving relationship. And the best part is that you can do it easily and effortlessly by being yourself -- and NOT shaping yourself into someone you're not just to keep your man interested.

Note : Ummi agree with... "Dont let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life. Relationships work best when they are balanced.."