Speechless..

Banyak benda Ummie nak buat hujung minggu nie...

*whatever happens, happens for a reason*

This concept applies to relationships. There's a reason behind actions, whether they are obvious to you or known only to the person who performs that action. Sometimes you say that there's no good reason why people do things. Yes, it is true, but keep in mind that what doesn't make sense to you, makes perfect sense to others.

Also, it is sometimes difficult to verbally explain reasoning behind actions, even if the explanation is clear in the mind. Other people may find it difficult to explain their reasoning.

Bottom line is, whatever happens-happens for a reason

Or for my optimists out there:

Whatever happens- Happens for the better (that's the one I like)

So next time you're angry or sad, take time to think things through...Don't feel sorry for yourself, but really think about the line of events.

Remember: there's always somebody worse off then you are so appreciate what you have.

Note : Ummie believe that everything happens in Allah's time..not yours..even not ours

Right Here Waiting

Oceans apart day after day

And I slowly go insane

I hear your voice on the line

But it doesnt stop the pain

If I see you next to never

How can we say forever

Wherever you go

Whatever you do

I will be right here waiting for you

Whatever it takes

Or how my heart breaks

I will be right here waiting for you

I took for granted, all the times

That I thought would last somehow

I hear the laughter, I taste the tears

But I cant get near you now

Oh, cant you see it baby

You've got me going crazy

I wonder how we can survive

This romance

But in the end if Im with you

Ill take the chance

Oh, cant you see it baby
You've got me going crazy

How to be the women men adore?...

When it comes to your relationships with men, which of the following do you find yourself saying?

a. "Why didn't he call?"
b. "How can I find the right man?
c. "Why do I always date losers?
d. "Why doesn't he love me anymore?
e. "What am I doing wrong?
f. "Why do some women have great relationships with men -- and mine are always dull, unfulfilling and boring?
g. "If only I could understand men...."

If you checked one or more of the above?...whatever you are..The important thing to remember is that you're not alone. Most women -- whether single or married -- have asked themselves these kinds of questions. I've found that the reason women have these concerns is because they simply don't understand men.

Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every desire?

Yes, it's true! You can have a healthy, loving relationship. And the best part is that you can do it easily and effortlessly by being yourself -- and NOT shaping yourself into someone you're not just to keep your man interested.

Note : Ummi agree with... "Dont let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life. Relationships work best when they are balanced.."

GOALS GIVE US PURPOSE

Everyday, we meet people who are unhappy with their lives and the world around them. Did your know that 98 out of 100 people who are dissatisfied with their world do not have a clear picture in their minds of what world they would like! They have no goal of a better life. They have no purpose that drives them. As a result, they continue to live in a world they make no effort to change.

I once heard a medical doctor speak on a subject of retirement. He had done extensive research on common characteristics of those persons who lives to be over 100 years old. He asked the audiance to think about what factors the long-lived people might have in common.

Most audience members expected him to identify such things as diet, exercise, moderation in drinking and smoking, and other activities that might affect the body. However, the doctor surprised the audience by telling them that there were few, if any, commonalties in therms of diet or exercise habits.

The most common factor that he found among those over 100 years of age was their view towards the future: They all had goals.

We Cannot Direct The Wind......

"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude." The bottom line is that when we are a positive thinker, we are able to produce results. We can put ourselves in position where we can act rather than react. We can set and work towards worthwhile goals that lead to success, rather than fighting our way out of negative situations every day.

Where success is concerned, people are not measured in inches, or ringgit, or college degrees, or family background : They are measured by the size oh their thinking. How big we think determines the size of our accomplishments. How big we think is determined by the way we think. The way we think is one of the few things in life that we can control. As someone once said, "We cannot direct the wind....but we can adjust the sails."

Having a positive attitude may not guarantee success. But when our attitude is positive, it puts us on the road that leads to success. Wheather or not we arrive there will be ditermined by what we do along the way.

Think Positive

If you want to get somewhere, you have to know where you want to go and how to get there. Then never, never, never give up.

The secret of life isn't what happens to you, but what you do with what happens to you.

Help other people to cope with their problems and your own will be easier to cope with.

Never use the word impossible seriously again. Toss it into the verbal wastebasket.

Self-trust is the first secret of success. So believe in and trust yourself.

Stand up to your obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven't half the strength you think they have.

Joy increases as you give it, and diminishes as you try to keep it for yourself. In giving it, you will accumulate a deposit of joy greater than you ever believed possible.

How you think about a problem is more important than the problem itself - so always think positively.

Go at life with abandon; give it all you've got. And life will give all it has to you.

In This Moment...

Ada tiada rasa dalam jiwa

Rindu akan memanggil Mu

Karna setiap jiwa t’lah bersumpah

Setia hanyalah kepada Mu

Bila cinta ada di dalam jiwa

Wangi bunga dunia tanpa nestapa

Segala yang dirasa hanyalah Dia

Hati ‘kan memuja hanya pada Nya

Ketika cinta memanggil

Gementar tubuhku

Ketika cinta memanggil

Hangatnya nafasku

Ketika cinta memanggil

Menderu sang rindu

Ketika cinta memanggil

Rindu rindu rindu qalbu

Memanggil manggil nama Mu

Seperti terbang di langit Mu

Tenggelam di lautan cinta Mu

Bertabur qalbu yang rindu

Melebur menjadi satu

Bagai menari diiringi pelangi

Ketika cinta memanggil

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